If your bowl sounds thin, harsh or refuses to sing when you rim it, the first thing to change is not the bowl. It is the striker, and it is by some distance the cheapest improvement available.
The striker determines how energy enters the metal, and that determines which frequencies come out. Two strikers on the same bowl produce audibly different instruments.
What the striker actually does
Two separate jobs, and most people only think about one.
Struck, the mallet delivers an impact. A hard surface delivers it quickly and concentrated, which favours the higher partials and gives a bright, immediate sound. A soft surface spreads the impact over a longer moment and wider area, which favours the low fundamental and gives a rounder, deeper note.
Rimmed, the striker maintains friction against the wall. Here the surface material and the pressure decide whether the bowl sings smoothly, chatters, or refuses to start at all.
Wood, suede and felt
Wooden strikers are the traditional and most versatile choice for singing bowls. Bare wood on metal gives a clear bright strike and excellent friction for rimming, which is why almost every bowl ships with one.
Suede or leather wrapped ends soften the strike considerably, producing a warmer note with less initial clack. Many strikers have wood at one end and a wrapped end at the other, which effectively gives you two tools.
Felt is the gong material rather than the bowl material. Our 23cm felted gong mallet and 30cm extra large are made for gongs, where much more mass is needed to move much more metal.
Size against bowl weight
The match that matters. A striker too light for a bowl cannot deliver enough energy to start it singing, however hard you work. A striker too heavy for a small bowl overwhelms it and produces a clatter.
As a general guide, small bowls of around 550g suit a light striker in the 13cm range, such as the 13cm classic or the 13cm tube handle. Medium bowls around 800 to 900g work well with something in the 18 to 19cm range, such as the 18cm double ring or the 19cm large classic.
Large and heavy bowls need real mass behind the strike, which is what the 22cm king striker and the 26cm extra large king striker are for. If you own a large bowl and have been using the stick it came with, this is the upgrade to make.

Why the included striker is usually a compromise
Not a criticism of anyone, simply how packing works. A bowl shipped with a striker gets one that is adequate across a range of uses and excellent at none, and often one sized down for packaging reasons.
That is why so many people conclude their bowl is disappointing when the bowl is fine. A properly matched striker frequently transforms an instrument someone was about to replace.
Owning two, and using them differently
The recommendation we make most often. One striker for striking and one for rimming is the arrangement that gives you the most from a single bowl.
For striking, something with a wrapped or softer end that gives a warm note. For rimming, bare wood with good friction. Switching between them mid session changes the character of what you are playing without changing the bowl.
Carved strikers
Worth mentioning since they exist and people wonder whether they are purely decorative. The 14cm Buddha carving, namaste carving and elephant carving strikers work as strikers, and the carving is in the handle rather than the striking surface, so it does not affect the sound.
They make considerably better gifts than a plain stick, which is mostly why they exist.
When a striker is worn out
Wooden strikers develop a flat spot and a polished surface where they contact the bowl, and a polished surface has less friction, which is why an old striker gradually stops rimming well.
Light sanding of the contact surface restores the grip and costs nothing. Replace when the wood has genuinely worn down or split.
Our guide to why a bowl cracks or rings flat covers the other causes.
Questions people ask
Why will my singing bowl not sing?
Most often the striker. A striker too light for the bowl cannot deliver enough energy, and a polished worn surface has too little friction to maintain the rim. Both are cheap to fix.
What size striker do I need?
Match it to bowl weight. Around 13cm for small bowls near 550g, 18 to 19cm for medium bowls of 800 to 900g, and a 22cm or 26cm king striker for large heavy bowls.
Wood or suede?
Wood for rimming, because it grips. Suede or leather for striking, because it softens the impact and favours the deeper fundamental. Owning both is the usual answer.
Is the striker that came with my bowl any good?
Adequate rather than ideal. Included strikers are chosen to suit a range of uses and packaging, which is why a properly matched one often transforms a bowl the owner was about to replace.
Do carved strikers work as well as plain ones?
Yes. The carving is in the handle rather than the striking surface, so it does not affect the sound. They simply make better gifts.